I'm hear for ya, Erin and you know it!
I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through. I wish I could wiggle my fingers and make you better. So much is going on with you and is so worriesome. It's a good thing I'm not your Mom or sister - I'd be on your case with worry constantly, you'd stop answering your door! Funny how that works, it's feast or famine with how we want to be treated by our loved ones. I want my mom to stop nagging me to leave my family and go to Mayo but I want my husband to care more and (more importantly) understand. He sees me as a fat lazy good for nothing (not exactly his words) who has no umph to get up and get things done except play.
But, once again, I digress. Here's wishing you better health and some answers as well as treatment to start feeling better. I understand your money issues and it frustrates the heck out of me people can't get the help they need when they need it. Be it medical or financial or whatever, you have to be on your death bed, in the red so far you've lost almost everything or who knows what else - it's not there until it is too late. It stinks.