Ditto to what LFW said.
There is not much you can do until she whole heartedly accepts her diagnosis and agrees to do whatever possible to treat herself. She must fully grasp on to the fact that she needs meds and once the right ones are found, they will help. And that therapy can and will be a godsend for many BP patients. And that she must start seeing you as a help to her, for any of your help to not be in vain.
You must decide whether it is worth staying and trying if she does not want help from you. You must not lose yourself in this.
Bipolar IIIt is a melancholy of mine own, compounded of many simples, extracted from many objects, and indeed the sundry contemplation of my travels, in which my often rumination wraps me in a most humorous sadness. -- William Shakespeare
Post Edited (loving frustrated wife) : 1/9/2008 2:22:37 PM (GMT-7)