Bipolar IIIt is a melancholy of mine own, compounded of many simples, extracted from many objects, and indeed the sundry contemplation of my travels, in which my often rumination wraps me in a most humorous sadness. -- William Shakespeare
I think you need to start concentration on your self and if I remember correctly, your daughter?
If she is saying she doesnt love you and her father is letting you know what she is saying, I think you should get your ducks in a row as far as protection, with family and assets and think about leaving her to help herself. She is being very manipulative to the point of fooling her doctors. I dont know if there is a way for you to make your own appointment with her pdaoc and let him know what is really going on. But she seems to be doing everything to get you to "leave her alone" and I guess maybe you need to consider that. I would hate to see you suffer anymore when she does not want your help.