I wanted to first of all thank you all for responding and giving me some avenues to look at lovingfrustratedwife, how wise you are, I can't believe the resourses you have given me and also the ideas....I will look into them so we don't lose our house
On a positive note I am feeling better because we spoke to an attorney that is presently thru the state trying to get her out of trouble for criminal damage (charges were dropped).
He said that they will haved a hard time proving she had anything to do with setting things. He also things possibly they were threatening her to get names (which I gave up since she wouldn't and I was concerned for her future).
In answer to your question, the boys are being charged with attempted murder and aggrivated assult, there lives are ruined and jail time is in their future. The bad thing is that no matter what they do to my daughter she will have to testify against her friends.
Yes I spoke to the pdoc (great guy) and he upped my cymbalta and things have leveled out somewhat, I hate this disease especially since I feel I passed it on to my daughter and the guilt is killing me.
about my Pdoc, I have tried alot of them and this one actually takes an hour or so depending on what I am going thru counseling me. I see him or talk to him on the phone and sometimes see him more than once a month. He really loves his job and cares, this makes a big difference.
Things are looking up, she now has a new I call her boytoy and he is the complete opposite of her previous one. She also has gotten back into training horses and giving kids riding lessons. Believe it or not this has made me feel so good that I spend alot less time in bed and try to hide in the background and watch her.
I thought it might be nice to post a positive thing but I still say "enoughalready"
Thanks guys for helping make me think and feel better.