Confused about my BF 's behavior?

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yana
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Date Joined Feb 2008
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   Posted 4/25/2008 4:39 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi all,
I love you all!My bf 's behavior is mind boggling as weekend approaches,he seems maniac ?Today we had to go to friend's birthday party that we were invited to since 2 months but bong out of blue he seems to get upset and throwing tantrums ,tells me to go alone .I only want to go as a couple but he is giving me headache now.
What should i do now?i am so sad & lost

sad
yana
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wondernurse247
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Date Joined Apr 2008
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   Posted 4/26/2008 7:42 AM (GMT -6)   
I experience the same type thing as your boyfriend.  I feel very anxious to attend social functions to the point that I know longer want to go to church.  My pdoc calles it situational anxiety.  She put me on vallium for that but at this point it isn't helping.  The only thing I can suggest is that you do go alone and try to enjoy yourself.  If you attend any of his counseling/dr visits you might bring this up or disucss it w/your bf at a different time.  Good luck, Krisitn

yana
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Date Joined Feb 2008
Total Posts : 220
   Posted 4/26/2008 8:09 AM (GMT -6)   
thx wonder for your support,if i tend to go alone ,when i return he tends to be jealous and feels left out and fights more .So i feel like walking on eggshells all the time.I am affected by his mood cycle and it dampens my spirit too,as he doesn't seem to enjoy life at all sometimes .
Feels like he can never be happy or never let me be happy.He loves to be sad or make me sad when i am looking forward to something or show him i m happy.
I am getting more depressed by all this.I don't know how to make him understand.
sad
yana
Never work just for money or for power. They won't save your soul or help you sleep at night.
~Marian Wright Edelman~


I have discovered that all human evil comes from this, man's being unable to sit still in a room.
~Blaise Pascal~

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