All, its been a while so I figured I'd update my situation and thank everyone for their help again
We have been NC since early April and she cut of any kind of contact from me (myspace, facebook, AIM, mutual friends etc....) so I took this as a clue to leave her alone. Right after we BU she was depressed for a couple of weeks, but then started telling our mutual friends (before she went NC with them) that we wouldn't have worked out due to <insert trivial fixable reason> and started heavily going bar hopping/clubbing then. My cousin has spoken to her a few times to let her know all her old friends are there for her, and she is very chipper and has a "everything is fantastic" attitude. I took this as a clue that she has no intentions to get back with me, and to move on.
Lately, I've been focusing on myself alot and going out and meeting alot of new people. Yes, the pain is still there and it still hurts quite a bit, but I guess I am on the right track. I am focusing on me. I miss her alot, but this is the way it had to be.
I still second guess myself and wonder if I did/am doing the right thing by leaving her alone, but she doesn't seem to want any kind of contact.
Thanks everyone for their help in the previous thread and take care.
Post Edited (Brian712) : 5/23/2008 7:17:27 AM (GMT-6)