I'm the wife of a bipolar husband. I know exactly what you mean about
sex. I think, for me anyhow, that when they are being mean and unpredictable, we are just not attracted to them at that point. I love my husband with all my heart and soul and love having sex with him...but when he's like that, I really don't want him to touch me. For me, again, he's been so mean and hateful, I just can't move past that in the bedroom. Why would you want to have sex with someone that has said and done mean things to you!?! You know what I mean? Love has nothing to do with sex....I thought for a long time that I was falling out of love with him because I didn't want to have sex...but that was not the case at all. I hope this helps.