My husband has decided he wanted a divorce. He blames me for not trusting him, which I did not for a while because I needed on antidepressants myself. He blames me for him making $50,000 this year and having nothing to show for it. He says that he spent all of his money on me and my cousin. He blames me for not wanting a baby because that is the one thing he wanted and I did not give that to him. We had a deal when we were going to start trying and he does not care now. He blames me trading in two mustangs for two vehicles I wanted. I just wanted practical vehicles. We live in Michigan and the winters are unpredictable. He is very angry and willing to give up everything. He moved out after I had asked him to when I thought he was cheating. He told me yesterday that we fight all the time and we do not live together. When I try to explain things to him he accuses me of fighting with him. He said he may never get married again because he does not want to go through this again. He does not want to try marriage counseling because it will not work. He wants to be able to hang out with his friends and not worry if he thinks I am cheating. Which I do understand his point. I stopped going bowling with him because it just was not fun anymore to me. I am just trying to make since of it all. I love him and I am hoping he will go to the doctor on Monday with his mom. He has been off of his meds for 2 years and right now he is not even answering his mom's calls. He is close with her. His sister said he sounds just fine, but knows there is a problem. I have never seen him like this before and I know he loves me, but he said he just wants to be friends. I know he isn't sleeping. He admitted that to me. He said that video games are boring, which he used to love. He used to love bowling, but I know he gave that up too. I am just at a loss. I love him so much and I don't think he wants to give up everything like he says he does. Has anyone else gone through this before that can give me advice?