BTW what do you mean by pressured speech? You mean feeling you have to talk constantly, or wnating someone else to talk to you. My wife is always wanting me to talk to her, just out of the blue, she will say "talk to me". Doesn't want to have a conversation, just wants me to do all the talking.
I don't know, she is so needy. There are times when she has to have all the attention from everyone. It's definatly an insecutiry thing, & has just come on this strong the past few years. It really gets on my nerves sometimes, becuase that is one of my big pet peeves, grown people begging for atttention, either out loud or subtlely.