Wow! I'm sorry the meds didn't work out for you. My wife has been on Risperdol for several months now & had nothing but success with it. My son is also on it for his Autism, When we increased it back over the summer it made him very aggressive, so we cut the dosage back to where it was & he calmed down. Other then that no complaints about it here.
I think you need to go bak to the doc, just to make sure of things, maybe a cut in dosage or a different med might be in order, but you definatly shouldn't go without. I'm sorry your hubby isn't being very supportive about this, unfortunatly we spouces can be dismissive about things sometimes. All the more reason to go to the doc. I know how you wives like to prove us wrong! Lol! Really though go to the doc that way you will know either way if it's the meds or if you have something else going on, but from what I have read everything you have mentioned is a side effect of the medicine. Go to the doc.
P.S. BTW did I say go to the doc. LOL. Take care
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