Hey, thanks for responding.. I can go some places like to the dr and to get my hair done, things that have to be done and sometimes I cant, I cancel the apointments. I like knowing ahead when I have to go somewhere so I can sort of plan ahead in a way, prepare myself. They say that its just another form of anxiety. My husband has to buy all the grocerys, pick up all of my meds, everything! which im sure you do too. I understand her guilt. It makes you feel totally guilty. It makes me feel like my family who know think i am lazy which is really hard to deal with. But I will go to the web and look up agriphobic sites. thanks so much for the reply, I am glad it was from a spouse.