That one hurts, I know. Therapists are good for saying stuff like that, but they aren't the ones that are caught in the heat of things. They aren't the ones who's emotions are getting trampled on. It is easy to say those things when you are just an observing bystander. They mean well & are trying to help, but until you have went thru it you just don't know. I know after hearing these type of things one too many times I told her that she knows where the door is & if she was that miserable to use it. Maybe not the best thing to say, but a person can only take so much. I really hope things calm down for you soon. I know how bad you are hurting right now, & have been there myself. I wouldn't wish it on anyone.