Medication works different for everyone and you need to work with your pdoc to find the right cocktail for you and sometimes it takes quite a long time.
Please don't get discouraged. It is worth it to be very diligent. It pays off in the long run.
What worked for me was 2 things. First depakote ( but for me that made me gain weight.) I am currently on trileptal and there is a generic for it as well and that has FINALLY worked for me.
Keep working with you pdoc. Eventually you will find the right one and there are MANY for your pdoc to choose from.
Keep up the good fight!