Feeling like I'm at the end of my rope

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Pippin
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Date Joined Sep 2009
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   Posted 10/6/2009 4:45 PM (GMT -7)   
I am so overwhelmed!  My separation is really taking its toll on me and I'm not sure how much longer I can do this.  I finally got a lawyer and while I feel better about having someone to protect my interests I am feeling shame and guilt about having to fight with my ex.  He is being rediculous about financial matters, and is trying to bully me constantly but I don't want to fight.  I never wanted to fight.  I left so that I could find some peace, and now I'm just going through more crap.  Now he's asking me to give back gifts that he gave me, refusing to do financial disclosure, claiming that I am being "mentally cruel" and threatening to take me off benifits because he knows I can't afford my meds
I want to get better! He won't let me, he does everything he can to upset me.  I am so angry with myself for letting him continue to do this to me but I don't know how to stop it.
 
Pippin

serafena
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Date Joined May 2007
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   Posted 10/6/2009 8:22 PM (GMT -7)   
Hi Pippin,

All I can offer is support and to tell you that time will get you through this and you will be better once this ex is out of your life. I'm glad you've got a lawyer. Keep your back up and know that you are better than his accusations.

Best wishes,
serafena
Serafena
Co-Moderator, Bipolar Forum
Bipolar II

"Bipolar disorder can be a great teacher. It's a challenge, but it can set you up to be able to do almost anything else in your life." - CARRIE FISHER

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