I've been going out with my g/f for nearly three years now. She is bipolar. During our time together I have helped her get her medication under control and see a psychiatrist.
In fact everything was going so good - she stopped seeing the psych for quite a long time - could even be six months.
Then out of the blue this week she started questioning our relationship. I reassured her everything was OK however I could see something was not 'right' with her. Then yesterday she starts telling me she's started to 'disasociate' at work - don't know if I spelled this right - basically she feels like she's not 'really there' and somewhat removed.
Last night when I saw her she was in a pretty bad way - crying and shaking - saying her head isn't right and that she just needs to sleep - also mentioning she could feel anxiety coming on too.
Strangely - she kept showing me her scars where she had once tried to commit suicide - but she reassured me she would never do it again.
She fell fast asleep and the next thing I get a message in the morning saying she doesn't want to see me till the afternoon. When I rang her to check if she was OK - she had driven a considerable distance (after barely sleeping) and she began questioning our relationship again - saying she was feeling pressure - and will call me later.
What the heck do I do here? I want to help but am afraid of putting this 'pressure' on her.
Sorry if I rambled a bit - I'm a bit upset.