Remember that you have argued and you have been off-kilt. Maybe it's time to make some brownies and say "Hey dog guys, I'm sorry if in the past I have annoyed you, I am working very hard to stop thos things that are disruptive. I would really appreciate it if you could try to keep down the dog noises just a little."
Or something like that. Most people meet accusation with accusation and denial with denial. Try being friends!
But yes, sometimes dog people are just as oblivious to their dogs as we are to our actions.