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Bohemian
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   Posted 3/29/2010 3:39 AM (GMT -7)   
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tortoise11
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   Posted 3/29/2010 6:49 AM (GMT -7)   
As a BP, you need STABILITY in a relationship. You know he's not good for you. You've made good steps to let him go.

Maybe it's time to look for someone who you can trust, who can give you stability?
Bipolar 2
Borderline Personality Disorder
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
Panic Disorder


happy bill
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   Posted 3/29/2010 7:57 AM (GMT -7)   

 Stability is the key to success in the fight with this illness.   In many ways i have  stopped depending on people to be stable (since they mostly arnt, but hey, i'm the crazy onetongue )  I have turned more and more to myself and my puppy for the stability and support that i need. Yea, you can  argue about the puppy thing but he is always nonjudjmental, allways happy to see me, and in general a solid source of happiness in my life.

   In many ways i have looked more and more toward myself for stability in life. I hear people complaining and getting upset about NOTHING", and it drives me crazy.

   I'm glad you have made progress with your AA and your BP. However it might be time to step out of the comfort zone you are in and try something new. You know the man he is and he isnt going to change. And you are not happy in this relationship. However you wouldn't be the first to stay with somone like that, the devil you know is better than the devil you don't.

 Bill

 


tortoise11
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   Posted 3/29/2010 1:29 PM (GMT -7)   
He has hurt you before. He won't eave you alone.

Correct?

Time for a restraining order.
Bipolar 2
Borderline Personality Disorder
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
Panic Disorder


happy bill
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   Posted 3/29/2010 4:55 PM (GMT -7)   

 

   I won't say if you should stay or you should go. Almost all the choices we make when it concerns relationships is always clouded with doubt and uncertainty. No relationship is perfect but there are those that are more perfect than others.

  I will only say that i wish you luck in whatever you choose. And of course we are here to listen if you need to vent.

   Bill 


SnowyLynne
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   Posted 3/30/2010 4:49 AM (GMT -7)   
Dump him!!!
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