First and foremost, WELCOME. You will find lots of suport here and this is a great bunch of WILD AND CRAZY PEOPLE. (Sorry Steve Martin) LOLL LOL LOL LOL
For what its worth my advice is to make a list of what is most important to least important in your busy life. Than you need to pare it down to what ABSOLUTLY has to be done in order to survive. You need all the energy you can muster to get your life under control. I dont know whats involved with chrones desease, people other than me who have experience with that can speak about that. You have to get the bipolar under control first, and that means having as much energy as you can for the fight with that. It may take a solid year but once thats under control you will have a strong base to attack the other issues affecting your life.
Still dont get discouraged, this is a journey of a thousand miles, so it isnt a sprint. Its going to take time and good hard effort. And support, lots of support. Just dont give up, every day you are successful is one day that no one can ever take away from you.
I'll let others join in and offer support. Just keep positive. It will get better.