Did you overreact?
Did you overreact due to negative past experiences?
Did you overreact because of guilt?
Did you overreact because of a mood swing?
Remember that men don't think like women do. They don't form relationships bsed so strongly in communication. Asking when you were talking about may have been an innocent inquiry into how you think, what you do, what is on your mind.
I get that when there is a background, a pattern, an innocent question can feel so loaded. Just wondering if you overdid it this time.