Hey, welcome back. Glad to see you back. Yikes, you have some tough issues on your hands. What field is your husband in? Im in the Air FOrce and they would totally support me staying with my wife during her pregnacy. In fact they would almost insist that i stay home.
My wife and i are in the same place you are. She thinks that now that i am normal, that all our work is done and we can coast and not talk about things. While i am trying to be proactive (How you like that word. ) and get out in front of things before they get bad. I guess there are two kinds of people in the world, those who look ahead and plan ahead, and those who dont and rely on those of us who do. What you gonna do, throw the baby out with the bath water? It just makes it tougher on those of us with a mental condition.
Ok, post more when you need to talk. And there is life outside militart bases, why not go out and try and find some of it.