FIrst of all, welcome and thank you for the kind words. I have BP so i understand that side of the house very very well.
It took me several med changes to find what worked best for me, and then a doseage change to finally sort it all out. This would all be so much easier if the doctor could just scan you with a device that could tell exactly what you needed and the amount u needed also. Well no use wishing for the impossible. LOL LOL
Just hang in there and give it some time. Keep the negative at bay any way you can. She can come thru this storm, and it sounds like she has a great supporter in you. We should all be so lucky.
Keep posting. Bill