You guys have this figured out by now, right?
I'd encourage all of the readers and lurkers to try to join in on a chat on Thursday. There is a private mode if you are shy and the chat room "refreshes" and erases the history periodically. (Also kicks everyone out of the room when that happens, but come back - it's nothing personal!)
Borderline Personality Disorder
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
"It's never too late to become what you might have been."