over a comment BF made. but it really hurt my feelings... I have recently been under a ton of stress and started smoking again in the past few weeks. And we had a small disagreement last night , and we were doing very well talking it out when he hit me with " I dont want to date someone that smokes" I just looked at him crazy, and I got really upset. I said then DONT date someone who smokes. PERIOD. Then I got up and stormed out. I was VERY angry. I know I probably over reacted yes.... But to ME , his comment meant that he doesnt want me if I smoke cigarettes. wait a sec,... that IS what he said ..... ok
That makes me feel like nothing... like I mean nothing to him. I yelled alot last night.. I was crying and told him not to tell me he loves me anymore bc its BS. and he said " My love is unconditional, but I wont be made a fool of, when you love someone you dont steal from them, you dont scream , yell and lie to them and try to kill yourself. " " most people would have never let you in the house after those incidents, and I stood by you through all of that" BUT " I dont want someone that smokes"
am I making too much of his comment about smoking?? Does anyone know if people with aspergers do things like this ( take TINY little issues and make them huge)