Well Ellie I understand that point. With all the tragedies going on and have went on all over the world, I sit here going what the heck would I do if I was in there predictiment? So I guess for me, I would turn to someone higher than me to help me through this. I am not a very religious person but my nan is, and I find myself lately asking for help. Not just help for me , I ask help for all. I watched the news with Katrina, I cried seing kids that hadn't eaten or were wearing nothing but a diaper. I would be so devastated. I am so glad that my family could donate some money and send my daughters clothes ( that she has outgrown), to the church and get ready to help. My nan is buying diapers and wipes to send also. So as I sit and complain of how I feel , I also say to myself stop being so selfish. These families have seen trauma and witnessed things I hope I never will, this will ultimately affect them forever.