dragonfly sdaid it about as well as it could be said. why would you want to do this to yourself? what great sin are you trying to atone for?
the basis for any lasting relationship is honesty. you are not even getting this basic foundation from this man. you yay you"love" him. i tell my grandaughters that they're not in love, they're in hormones. perhaps this applies to you? (i'm not trying to get perspnal or anything here).
i also agree that this dude is blaming his transgressions on bp. what happens when he starts blaming them on you? this type of personality traditionally cannot take responsibility for their own actions and are always trying something/someone that they can blame for thier basic inability to cope with reality.
sorry to be so negative on you, hon. but your posting implied that you wanted honest opinions. there's mine. hope it helps.
That light at the end of he tunnel? It's an on-coming train.
Some day you'll learn that a good bm is better than sex.
Insanity is defined as doing the same actions over and over again and expecting a different outcome.