As I said before , I think your idea is a good one.
Please , don't go worrying yourself about things that haven't happened , I have never cheated , but when I'm manic my partner can tell as we have different $£x.
I think you may have read too much of the standard steriotypical text on BP while doing research - everyone is unique , and the way this condition affects each person is unique too.
Let us know how you get on with the therapy with your hubby.
Hey Countrygal, this is Optimistik,
I know you've already posted to mine about how your situation is so similar to mine. I just want to say hang in there. I'm trying to do my best as well and as you have already seen the post by Smiler, there is hope that things will work out the way you want it to and that there is hope to have a successful marriage with someone who has Bipolar. :)