I really feel that your husband isn't taking your diagnosis seriously , or , he cannot comprehend what you are going through and the enormous pressure he is putting you under.
He needs to be told. Marriage is understanding and helping one another , trusting and listening to one another - marriage is being part of a team , he is not helping the team to win. By doing what he is doing to you I feel he is helping you stay ill rather than get better/cope with your situation.
Maybe you could get your doc/shrink to speak to him - he needs to know that this is real and it cannot be swept under the carpet with some good old fashioned hard work.
Please take care hun and know that we are here for you.
A warm welcome to our BP family ((((lost_lonely))))
I may be new to this site, but not to what you are going through. Explain it to your child, he will understand. My 13 year old did! It sounds like you have been in an abusive marriage for some time now and you need to get out! It doesn't sound so much like the BP is pulling you under as he is. You have to pull yourself up from under his grasp. Only you can bring happiness back to your life, but you need support along the way. You also need to remember what is best for your child. You want and need him to growup being understanding about MI. Good Luck!!