Tormented... is it obsession or not?

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   Posted 3/9/2007 9:33 AM (GMT -6)   
I've been wanting to get my tubes reversed for several months and secretly for over a year. My dh says that it is just another obsession. My heart truly tells me this is the path to take. Am I wrong. Is this just another obsession, like remodeling or painting? 

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   Posted 3/12/2007 6:47 AM (GMT -6)   

Well if you've been thinking about it for a year.........

Have you weighed up the pro's & cons - write them down. You need to ask yourself questions. How much have you talked to your DH about it , you need to talk with him and ask yourselves how it is going to affect your lives and your relationship , the sacrifices you both will have to make.

If you have done these things and you both still want to go ahead then it isn't an obsession.

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