i am 61 years old and still feel the shame, hurt, and anger. even now, with my father dead for over 20 yrs and my mother dead over 5 years., i still hurt. i've been in and out of therapy almost all my life - i don't really know if it helps. sometimes i will do almost anything for some peace - i seldom get it.
yes, i am a male. sexual abuse doesn't know or care abiout sexual orientation.