Thanks to all who responded. She will be in weekly therapy and is seeing a highly recommended phychiarist next week. Keeping my fingers crossed that she isn't bi-polar, but will deal if it is. I just want my happy daughter back. She was there at one time and I'll do everything I can to see that she gets there again. I just recently got married again, I have a feeling this is what triggered it this time. He is willing to do what he can too. She justs sees that it's not just me and her against the world as it had been for 10 years. Hopefully she will realize that he cares a lot about her too.