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Scared_Wife
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Date Joined Aug 2007
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   Posted 10/17/2007 6:47 PM (GMT -7)   
Well I had a great weekend away with the boys.... It was nice to have the mental break... 
 
This week My husband is mostly stable.... He will not talk about anything serious( as in I have not been able to suggest a dr or anything).  But he seems very upbeat and involved with the boys he has mad a point to arrange to see them everyday this week, is going to lessons and just generally being great where there concerened....
 
This is where it is hard to be tuff.... I don't want to be cruel when he's around, but he's not really giving me the chance to stay firm.   He is not talking about us, or are relationship he is focusing on the kids... which is good but will be tuff next week when he's buried in depression....  Last night when we dropped him off after a skating lesson... he cried... never said why... but he was sobbing....
 
I have been told by the Dr, psycologist to take his good days when I can till I can talk him into going.... I hate this... I want a normal... Drama Free life....    

serafena
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Date Joined May 2007
Total Posts : 3715
   Posted 10/17/2007 7:24 PM (GMT -7)   
Of course you hate it. And until you truly believe that you deserve that normal, drama-free life, you're going to let this irresponsible, irrational man rule your life. It's not fair, but it's up to you. Please work on being tough, Scared_Wife. The rest of us can plainly see you deserve better. Sure, he needs help, but so do you. Take care of yourself first for a change.
Serafena
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