Feeling very lonely

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familyman
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Date Joined Nov 2007
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   Posted 11/19/2007 4:11 PM (GMT -7)   
I am going on three months with absolutely no affection from the person i love the most, my bp wife.  I am starting to feel very lonely and craving the attention.  It hurts so much to go from one exteme to the next.  She is taking her meds again.  It has been about a month back on her meds but I am seeing no change in her attitude toward me.  I found signs that there may be someone else.  I am really scared that this may be the case but even if it was I would still try to work things out.  I married her for better or worse and I hope it can't get much worse.  I am afraid things are out of my control.  I told her if she wanted a divorce that she would have to go get it.  Haven't seen any papers and no sign of any attorney involvement.  
Need some encouragement!

Casem
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Date Joined Sep 2007
Total Posts : 187
   Posted 11/19/2007 5:45 PM (GMT -7)   
I am so sorry you are feeling so lonely. Please know that you are not alone. This disorder is so devastating and it can destroy so many lives....that is why the Healing Well family is here for you....for support and understanding. So many people are going through similar situations or have been exactly where you are....they can share their stories....or simply share in your pain.

The person you love is in there...she is just being taken over right now by this terrible disorder. Read all that you can about bp so that you can try to understand it rather than let it consume you. Once you feel you have some understanding, rather than letting it control you, you may feel a bit stronger. You need to be strong for your family....as impossible as that may seem now. Knowledge is the only power over the disorder. LFW has helped me to understand....don't let someone who isn't currently rationale...define YOUR reality. Your wife isn't necessarily stable right now....don't let her define your reality for you and your family.

You are in my thoughts....Stay Strong!
 
Casem
 


familyman
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Date Joined Nov 2007
Total Posts : 28
   Posted 11/19/2007 6:14 PM (GMT -7)   
Every time she seems to be acting better, I get my hopes up. This is not the first time I have been through this but it doesn't seem to get any easier. Couple weeks ago she left me a message on the phone saying she loved me but when I asked her about it she said I took it wrong. How am i supposed to take I love you. It just hurts!
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