I don't know anyone this has happened to, and I didn't have taxatere, but I was just curious... if your oncologist had told you there was a tiny chance that alopecia would be permanent, would you have had the treatment anyway?
I really am sorry that you have this problem and that it is causing you so much emotional pain. But if the company acknowledges this side effect and it was your oncologist who just didn't tell you... maybe your efforts to get reparitions from the drug company are misplaced.
Good luck to you,
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