Hi ! I have to agree w/ what the other gals told you. You definitely need to find either an oncologist or surgeon that will listen to you and take action to find out what is causing your problems. You mentioned that you have 2 friends that have bc. Do they live in your area? If so, ask them who their onoclogist or surgeon is and if they are totally satisified w/ their care. If they say yes, then make an appt w/ one of their drs. Congrats to you physician for making sure that you are getting the problem checked. Too many would have accepted the first physician's findings and let it go. Sounds as though you have a good one! Remember to follow your gut instincts.
Please let us know what you find out.