Hi, Jam. I'm so sorry to hear about your diagnosis, but glad you found us. What kind of treatment are you on? Knock on wood, I'm NED and have been for many years, but we have a few friends who pop in from time to time who are Stage 4. I hope some of them will respond to your post. I know some of them feel like they might scare away newcomers, but I have to tell you, they are my heroes. Many of them have been fighting mets for years and enjoying every minute of living life. To those of us who know them, they are an inspiration and true heroes among us.
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