So sorry about the mast news. But this is OK. Joyce is right, study your doctors and their history. Read and learn all you can about the surgery and about reconstruction. It is not always for everyone and not always the right decision to make right away. You can always have reconstruction later. I decided to have it right away. It was a good decision for me.
There does come a point when you have to trust your doctors, but you need to have the knowledge you gain from researching your situation and needs. Not any doctor is perfect, most mean well and take good care but they are only human.
I will have you in my prayers.
Love and hugs,
Many Holiday Blessings to All
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