I'm glad you decided to vent and get that over with. Why don't you take a deep breath and let us know what has happened. When was the diagnosis and what has been done since? What kind of treatment have they told you you would need?
Everyone of us knows what a life-shattering experience we had when we were told we had b/c so you've got plenty of shoulders to lean on. Let us know what we can do to help you. You've found a place with the most amazing women's support group. Sometimes people don't call or visit because they just don't know what to say. They just don't realize how much it hurts.
Sending warm hugs to you, Jo-Ann
A good friend will bail you out of jail...
but a true friend will be sitting
next to you saying,
"Dâmn... that was fun!".