I have not had a recurrence, but have had EXTENSIVE, HEATED, discussions with my oncs regarding this. Finally one did tell me that a recurrence a the scar was completely treatable. I had mast in Dec with 5 pos lymph nodes. I went through the treatment you are going through now. Am finishing rads right now. My taxol was in 12 weekly treatments, easily tolerated, and actually my rads while easy are somewhat painful here at the end, but again totally tolerable. These ladies here on the forum will be with you so stay in touch.
If you will read my posts, you will see my angry responses to both my oncs regarding cancer recurrence. Again, my rad onc has said that your situation is totally treatable and believe me that is quite a positive response from one negative doctor.
Some of us live in the same area, but we have travelled far and wide to meet! We have organized several gatherings over the years...the first one I went to was in Saint Louis in 2000, about 40 of us met there. The group has gone to Myrtle Beach twice, San Antonio and Cincinatti, most recently in Louisville. A small group went to Vegas too, and some have travelled to each other's homes or family events.
Personally, I appreciated the internet support more than a live group....we could chat and post whenever we wanted, in our jammies even....and this way there seems to be no age barrier. I went through tx at 31, and did not want to join a group where I would be the youngest...but here it does not matter. We are all sisters, and age differences have enhanced our experiences.
You may want to check on a local Gilda's Club, or check with American cancer society for local groups in your area.