Ellen: I'm sorry about the house deal falling thru. I always believe that things happen for a reason and it seems that this particular house wasn't meant for you and your family. There is one out there. Be patient. IT will find you! As for your frustration w/ your dh. Don't know what to say other than do what you want or feel is right. Sounds as though he hasn't and now isn't keen on moving anywhere.
As for the colonscopy...yes, I had one. It was right after I had the recurrance and we were attempting to find out where the cancer was. I have to tell you the truth. I will NEVER have another one unless they totally knock me out and tie me down. Most people don't have the same feeling that I do but my best friend told me that she had never seen my cry during any treatment or test until this one. I believe that it is just me. My surgeon and onco both are very keen on bc patients having this test done.
Judy: I would definitely find out why they ignored your requests. That is BS. My new onco ran all of the tests that I requested. Even though a couple of them she said that she normally didn't do. I told her that I had those tests done for the past 5 years and felt comfortable because I knew what to look for w/ the results. Please keep us informed.