She's right, no question is dumb. :)
You are right, we're all different. I had virtually no side effects, while others get intolerable ones. Most are somewhere in between. I took it from age 31-36 and gained a good 20#, and much to my dismay, the pounds have stayed around...granted, my diet is not right for weight loss, but I hoped they would fall off. I do wonder about
hair changes, I think I had a little less curl in my naturally curly hair, but I had all my leg hair, no slow down in that growth!
Some side effects may be immediate and others may be gradual. I escaped the hot flashes too, my onc said the under 40 group had the advantage as far as that went.
Take it as a good sign that you feel ok, don't assume it will get worse, but be aware that it could change...
And hang in there!