My best friend was just diagnosed with cancer. I need to be there but she is such a private person and I can tell she does not take help well. I want so much to help her through this. I feel lost. She is going to see her oncologist Friday but wanted to go alone. I thought about making up a basket of goodies and leave at her doorstep for when she gets home. I truly don't know what to do. Her entire family is out of the country so they are not here for her. Should I just tell her I am here and back off ? Should I continue to call her ? Please....................what do I do. She has told me she doesnt want anyone to know.
Thank you for your help and support