Hi and welcome! I vote to have it removed right away!! It might very well be benign as 80% of lumps are, but if by chance it was not, you want to be here for your baby and husband. Having it removed will at least answer the question for sure, and then you can go on from there. Please let us know what you decide. I am sure others here will chime in with their votes. Take care.
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