I wish I had some definite & sure answers for you. Dealing with & being diagnosed with CFS&/or Fibromyalgia can take some time & patience. Have you checked into Lyme disease? It has similar symptoms & people have been dx'd with Fibro & they have Lyme or visa versa.
Ok, first off-I think to begin with you need to find yourself a different Doctor. If your Doctor isn't listening to you & hearing you out about "all" your symptoms then move on. This is your life & I have a hard time with any kind of medical person who dx's you & then says you need what I have to sell. Kinda causes me to step back & wonder if the dx was real or did it just fit into the dx he wanted to give in the first place?
There are about 65 symptoms in Fibro & yours do seem to fit but Fibro is dx'd by eliminating everything else it could be. There are so many illnesses that have the same symptoms, so be patient, get the blood tests done & see what your new Doctor finds. One thing with Fibro is the 18 tenderpoints. Have you checked yourself for that? Google Fibromyalgia tenderpoints & you will find all kinds of sites that show where these are. They are spots on our bodies that are very tender when touched & they hurt like crazy if you push too hard. The criteria used to be, you need to have at least 11 of the 18 but I don't know if that still stands. I sometimes think there are more & I also think, if you have 9 or 10 should that mean you don't have Fibro? I don't think that should be the case.
I have: Fibromyalgia, ME/CFS, Holt-Oram Syndrome, nasal allergies, food allergies, depression, TMJ, anxiety Married to a wonderful supportive husband & between us we have 4 children & 7 grandchildren As apples of gold in silver carvings is a word spoken at the right time for it. Prov. 25:11
I visit many different sites on this forum due to my long list of symptom and in reading natural health books I fit the bill for Adrenal Gland Fatigue due to prolonged stress. I often take Solaray Adrenal support I think it is called. At times it does seem to make me feel better. I also have depression, may or may not be bipolar, high anxiety, PTSD, etc. I take .5 Xanax 3 times a day and recently started taking 10 mg Celexa. How does the Celexa work for you? I am not sure if it is as effective as I would Like it to be. Maybe I am expecting too much. I work full time and have two children and feel my plate is way too full. I wish I could stay home but family finances would be a disaster.
Hope today is a good one for you.