oh Donna!!! i wish i could make you feel better. by the sounds of it your daughter is a wonderful young lady. You must be so proud of her. I understand it must be awful watching your dauhter do things for you, but being a daughter i have to say i would have done the same for my mum, and i bet you would have to. I think it is called love!!!!! Doxy??? is that doxycycline? what meds are you on? maybe they can change the meds. After my op i was put on tramadol, and that made me go the same way you are talking. As soo as i stopped taking them i was better. Why not take it easy for now, watch tv, movie or something read!! whatever, but maybe after a good rest you can do somehing. Be thinking of you!!! Im here to talk if you want.