I just wrote you a big long note, but my computer deleted it right as I went to press post! How rude! My eye hurts too much to type it all out again, but basically, don't blame yourself. You would think, that comming in as a new paitient to a practice that accepts it's patients by referral only, your new pain doc would have read over your file from your old pain doc, and thus would be up to speed on your history & the meds you take. She should have come into that exam room prepared, and should have been able to easily check & and verify your dosage when you were having trouble remembering/in disagreement with your husband. So she certainly didn't help you out at all.
If they don't change the dosage when you call them tomorrow, definitely stop by with your bottle. There is no reason that you should have to suffer for an entire month just because you forgot your meds one time. Good luck with that tomorrow. I hope it all works out & I hope your appointment went well otherwise & you like your new doc.