Jenpen400, Where are You?

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Pete trips again!
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   Posted 3/10/2009 11:44 AM (GMT -6)   
Jen,
I'm worried about you, are you here? If you are reading, please reply. That last thread about your boyfriend and the drugs and your kids really got to me. Everyone may have sounded pretty tough on you but it's just because they care about you. Please come back and maybe we can help! I appologize if I wrote anything that was out of line, I honastly wasn't trying to hurt you in anyway and I'm sure no one else was either. Please let us know you are alright!
Your Friend,
Pete   
56 years old, Surgury, Radical Prostatectomy 8/20/03, PSA 6.6, Gleason 3 + 3 = 6, Adenocarcinoma extent (moderate) Stage & Margin:T2NOMX, No Metastases, Organ Confined, bone scan: Neg. 3 1/2 years of depression after surgery prior to Hypogonadizm DX, Testosterone Theropy> new 2/6/09> 400mg injections every 2weeks . 56 and so glad to still be here to see my two sons grow up to be fine young men. They are both serving in the US Navy, one on the aircraft carrier USS John Stennis in port in Japan and the other on a Gator Freighter USS Bataan stationed in Norfolk, Va. I am one proud PaPa! 


jenpen400
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   Posted 3/11/2009 12:17 PM (GMT -6)   
I'm still here. I'm careful to post when he can't see then I erase the history so I can only peek now and then. I'm not ready to confront him yet. Thanks for caring guys.

jennifer
Chronic pain, anxiety, PTSD, and Depression. Norco Soma Ambien Xanax Tramadol and Prozac.


White Beard
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   Posted 3/11/2009 12:35 PM (GMT -6)   
Don't confront him Jen, that can be way to risky for you! Just find a safe place to go for you and your kids, and then go! But make sure it is a safe place and I think you know what I mean. Good Luck to You!
 


Pete trips again!
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   Posted 3/11/2009 1:01 PM (GMT -6)   
Jen,
I'm so sorry it's come to this! I guess I was wrong about trying to help, save or reason with the guy. My prayers are with you. I hope you & your children are safe, please don't take any chances! Does he get physical w/ you? If he ever has in the past, get the "H" out of there!
Love & Prayers from your friends!
Pete
56 years old, Surgury, Radical Prostatectomy 8/20/03, PSA 6.6, Gleason 3 + 3 = 6, Adenocarcinoma extent (moderate) Stage & Margin:T2NOMX, No Metastases, Organ Confined, bone scan: Neg. 3 1/2 years of depression after surgery prior to Hypogonadizm DX, Testosterone Theropy> new 2/6/09> 400mg injections every 2weeks . 56 and so glad to still be here to see my two sons grow up to be fine young men. They are both serving in the US Navy, one on the aircraft carrier USS John Stennis in port in Japan and the other on a Gator Freighter USS Bataan stationed in Norfolk, Va. I am one proud PaPa! 


Danimal
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   Posted 3/11/2009 2:57 PM (GMT -6)   
Hi Jen:

I was reading your posts too...I know you feel trapped and I'm so sorry for that. what an awful situation to deal with on top of your pain and being a mom, a daughter to a father with cancer and an alcoholic mom. My goodness..you are a really strong woman, you know that?

FIrst question..is your BF the father of your children? IF he is, he's required to support them by law regardless of whether you are with him...

Second question..has he ever gotten in trouble with work in regard to his alcohol problems/drug problems? Or is this just something that he does at home?

Is there any way your BF could get help or would he resist that idea? Does he admit that he has a problem?


Hugs,
Danimal
Chronic Stimulation- a blog about living with a neurostimulator
http://chronicstimulation.blogspot.com/

PAlady
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   Posted 3/11/2009 6:14 PM (GMT -6)   
Jen,
It's me again! Kind of nudging you once again to start getting more and more support for yourself. If you think you want to approach him, FIRST go to a local addiction treatment center and ask if they will help you do an intervention. But this is NOT something you do on your own. It requires preparation and thought. If you don't want to go that route, then you either need to leave or have him leave until he's involved in an addiction program. He's involved in too much stuff to stop on his own.

As others have mentioned, if there's any kind of physical violence (or threats - that's how it begins) you need to take the children and go to a safe place.

I really hope you get some help.

PaLady

atticbat
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   Posted 3/11/2009 6:20 PM (GMT -6)   
Jen.
Please be careful.
I will say a prayer for you!
If you need to talk please do we are all here for you!
God bless.
((( to you and you children)))
Atticbat
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