I believe time heals all wounds and this is certainly one of those times. I think if he continues to work at regaining your trust you will know when and if your ready to do that.
It seems you both are on the right path and counseling is working issues maybe that were there before and most likley some he had you never even relaized,this life of ours as CPers is not easy on those we love by any means and I recall the biggest fear my kids had once I found out was the fear I was going to die and leave them and I never even realized this was a thought for them.
Good luck and keep at it and I think before long you will find yourself showing you can trust him when he shows he has earned it.
Kids can cause us the most pain and lift us to the highest heights. It is an amazing thing to be a parent. It is like becoming bipolar!! One moment they say or do something that melts you to the core and the next .....you are so truly frightened for them by their own choices, actions or thoughts!!
I have to constantly remind myself that my boys are their own people......I cannot control them. They are going to make their own decisions, mistakes and choices. God bless us!!!
Sam, sometimes it is one day at a time.....sometimes it is one breath at a time!!! Not corney at all!!
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