Post Edited (Piercings) : 6/29/2009 1:03:01 PM (GMT-6)
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad passing. I know its difficult losing a parent, both of mine are gone and it was really rough and sometimes still is. Try to remember good times and know that he is not suffering.
I hope you can get help with your Mom, you have enough on your plate as it is dealing with the loss of your Dad. I am just so sorry you are having to go thru all of this.
I know you haven't been around in awhile, how are you doing besides the recent turn of events.? I hope you are doing ok. Don't be a stranger, we are here for you.
I am sorry for your loss of your father, I do remember you talking about him in your previous post! It has been along time since you have posted, I do hope everything thing else in you life is OK. I am in agreement with straydog and PALady, about your mom, but jenpen400 you do know that we all care about you, so don't be a stranger, Please take care of yourself!
Wishing you all the best!
I am so sorry for the loss of your Dad! I can't add much to what has already been posted.
You are in my thoughts and prayers!
My father also died of cancer, first the lungs and then spreaded to the liver, he has been gone almost five years now and when he passed I took on the responsibility of my mother and it was hell, she also drank and then she developed cancer and then I found out after 38 years together that her and my father were never married so no survivor death benefits. Me and my husband morgaged our home to afford a place for her, she never made any effort to get ahead she was happy just living off us until one day we had enough and we got her into low income housing, meanwhile I have been in chronic pain for eleven years now, several surgeries latter, and I can tell you from experience that it's not about love it's about you sanity and you well being as well as your family, so make your decision and don't let anyone sway you no matter what the decision is, after all you know your mother better than most I am sure. Good luck to you and my deepest sympathy on the loss of your father I know how much it hurts.