Flower, I wanted to respond to you and did not do it before I was consumed by another post. If you are asking if you can respond with a personal message to someone, the answer is possibly. Some of us list our personal emails if you click on our name. You can respond to someone personally on a thread if it is appropriate and know it will be read and possibly commented on by others. I am one that has my email listed and don't mind emails. Other don't have one listed but will make one available if you ask. I hope this helps.