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Mrs. Dani
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   Posted 8/12/2009 12:42 PM (GMT -7)   
   Gosh. Im exhausted. And grumpy.  shakehead
 
cry   Fine so all my teeth are destroyed.... Holy cow do I really have to do this at 29? WHY WHY do I run into everyone while im toothless??? I mean.. EVERYONE? yes, everyone im just that lucky... and think.. havnt even started the 4mo. process of fusion.
cry   My back stings and I am dreading the new damage. The area of "sting" has spread dramatically.  DANGIT IT ALL! I dont wanna even see the bill from this one...Maybe noone will notice my right hip is nearly directly infront on me...did it really happen like that in just a few months time?? yes. CRAZY!!!
cry   Do I really have to go back to the eye surgeon? "Hi , sorry to bother you again but I now have little black dots of "pepper" in both eye now"? BOTH? ARGH All I wanted was new glasses thi is stupid! I dont even want the little black glasses anymore!
mad   DID NOT JUST loose more hearing in my LEFT EAR NOW??? LEFT?? I've hear of "selective hearing" but this is rediclious. I do not have the itme to have my hearing measured AGAIN for them!
 
.... And the baby sitter canceled last minute. We cannot find anyone else to help the week of my day procedures. I got to tuffin up. No choice. Im not BITTER! Im just methodically XXXX names on my christmas list... One of the few times I wish I had family.  cry
 
.... are my "friends" really causing this much drama in my already over extended life? Yes. Someone said something when I first join, and at the time I though *Oh how said* But it is true. There really is a "Very clear line when you become sick. That is of who are your friends and who are your aquaintances."
 
... And my little bumblebees start school, and yes vanity has stricken me. I wish more than anything I didnt have to meet the new teachers and other parents while my "sick" is so obvious.  I know it is just social vanity but gosh!  I wish it wouldnt bother me so much.
 
cry  
 
Gosh the inside me is so terribly tired.
 
thanks for letting me "unload" cry
 
*huggs*
   dani
 
    


TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood,  
And sorry I could not travel both  
And be one traveler, long I stood

Post Edited (Dani Henson) : 8/12/2009 1:58:17 PM (GMT-6)


PAlady
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   Posted 8/12/2009 12:54 PM (GMT -7)   
Awe, Dani!

I can't understand everything you're going through, but I can relate to the exhaustion. I loved the way you put it - " the inside of me is so terribly tired". That is truely profound. I "get" that.

I am so sorry you're having so many health problems, and it also sounds like you're not getting much (if any) support from friends.

I also don't think it's excessive vanity when it comes to having to deal in public with people who you don't know how they will react. You sort of have to buffer yourself emotionally because you know some will give you stares or "looks", but on the other hand you may find some support in strange places.

And - remember we're always here.

((((((((((((Dani)))))))))))

PaLady

Piercings
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   Posted 8/12/2009 4:03 PM (GMT -7)   
Dani,

I know the toothless feeling. All too well. I've had full dentures since right before I turned 30. They did the extractions in 3 sessions. First all the molars in the back, both top & bottom. Then all the lower facials. Then finally all the top facials. During the time that I had no teeth at all is when it seemed that I ran into people that I hadn't seen since middle/jr high school, people that I worked with when I was 16 and hard my first job, and relatives that I didn't even know I had. It's inevitable that you'll run into everyone until you have teeth again. Just be glad that you don't have something like family photos scheduled. I had to learn how to grin and hold air in my mouth so it didn't look like my face was all sunk in from no teeth.

And then conveniently, once they're in place, you won't see a soul except a spouse or housemate - or maybe even a pet.

Hang in there, soon you too will be able to smile at them and chew only Freedent brand gum. lol. When someone compliments you on the new smile you can tell them that for only $1200 (or whatever amount it's costing you) they could have the same one too.

skeye
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   Posted 8/12/2009 5:55 PM (GMT -7)   
(((((((((Dani)))))))))). Just try to breathe! Sometimes it seems like we have the weight of the world on our shoulders. All you can do is try to slow down & take things one small step at a time. Things will work out, I know they are. You have such a sweet, caring soul, something good has to be in store for you!

hugs,
Skeye

LLPLUV
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   Posted 8/12/2009 6:11 PM (GMT -7)   
My heart and soul is aching for you. At times the wholeness of our situations come down like thunder for us to bear. Its good that you unloaded and I'm glad we are here for you.

Laurie
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39 yr young female with,
Chronic Kidney Stones, PKD (Polycystic Kidney Disease), Chronic Kidney Failure, Severe Hypertension, Urological RSD

Also CHF (Congestive Heart Failure) and Sleep Apnea

Hopefully NO MORE........ I think I have it all


Pete trips again!
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   Posted 8/12/2009 6:14 PM (GMT -7)   
Dani, I agree w/ Skeye 100%, the karma train is coming your way and it's going to drop off a big load of happieness right in your lap! You deserve good things and they will come! Screw all those shallow people anyway, you are better than them and we all know that. Yep, you just unload all you want. You even make whining an enjoyable read with your sence of hummor! Well, I hate to hear the bad things but you know what I mean! Most people in your position would be curled up in the corner of a dark room in the fetal position but not you! Be proud of yourself and the hell w/ anyone who dosen't realize that it could very well be them in your shoes someday! We're proud of you Dani!!!
Big Fat Guy Hugz comin attcha!!!
Big Bro> Pete
56 years old, Surgury, Radical Prostatectomy 8/20/03, PSA 6.6, Gleason 3 + 3 = 6, Adenocarcinoma extent (moderate) Stage & Margin:T2NOMX, No Metastases, Organ Confined, bone scan: Neg. 3 1/2 years of depression after surgery prior to Hypogonadizm DX, Testosterone Theropy> new 2/6/09> 400mg injections once a month. 56 and so glad to still be here to see my two sons grow up to be fine young men. They are both serving in the US Navy, Joseph is on the aircraft carrier USS John Stennis back in Bremerton, Wa. after 8 mo. deployment! and Pete Jr. is on The Asault Ship USS Bataan "The Jaws of the Fleet" somewhere in the Persian Gulf w/ 2,000 Marines aboard. I am one very proud (what they call me)> Big Pops! 


Mrs. Dani
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   Posted 8/12/2009 6:50 PM (GMT -7)   

Dear PA Lady,

       Your right, I am not. The lines were drawn last year and I was devistated for a long time. Still makes my heart ache. My friends were the only family I had.  I was devistated, angry and eventually went to therapy. I know that noone expected that a "pulled muscle" would turn into this .. this.. bone crumbling madness nearly 4years later. Noone is more shocked than my doctors and I. sheesh! I am glad I found healing well. I am glad I met other chronic pain patients. Its hard, real hard having your body do whatever it wants. Never relenting, never slowing. Never ceasing. Gosh I hope we can get this calicum stuff under control.

Dear Peircings! 

      Yes! this was so messed up... wouldnt believe it! This guy says "Do you feel better now that you see a therapist?" with an odd look. Like something was funny, that I didnt get. I turned and said "For 5 thousand dollars, Id better." And went back into my conversation.  cry       

      Ugh! Remind me to never treat anyone like that! Lesson #2,000 learned confused   I have given up on anyone "understanding". You guys do, and a friend in california does. I am greatful. It was lonesome out there!

      I keep trying hard to remind myself that its just a moment in time.  And still I feel the urge to cry and hide.  Such a chicken   smhair     The teeth themselves were so costly I had to pay in three chunks. Total for teeth alone $4,000.0.. not including extra X rays, various office visits to both men.  The surgeon, for the surgical procedure,  is using all of what is allowed by insurance this year and another $ 2,000.0 out of pocket.  I know they are working hard and doing the best they can. I know there is alot they are taking in to consideration.

      The awfull part is that I grew up in extreme poverty so I literally had 20K worth of dental work done over 4yrs time, BEFORE any of this calicum absorption stuff started. Jeeze. Im gonna ask for before and after copies of XRays, I dont think anyone will mind. Maybe ill go plant a tree out back, and mourn the loss of custom shaded porcelin caps.  cry was 800.0 per tooth and I dont even have a thing to show for it.  shakehead   Atleast all the wisdoms and 4 other molers were taken out back then. Little silver lining maybe?

     Gosh! Does my back have to sting so much on top of it all? I know I need medicine in there already!!! I dont need my back to remind me every passing MOMENT! Not gonna help the 28th get here any quicker. Jeeze. Ugh

except a spouse or housemate - or maybe even a pet.

I'll take 2 tickets for me and Mr.Bubbles! Atleast the cat knows when to keep quiet. nono  

...Wish we could put mean people in the time out corner. smhair

     This turned out to be a whole heck of alot longer than I had planned.... Sorry. Thanks for your responses, makes it feel easier. And hey! One more day down

*huggs*

dani


TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood,  
And sorry I could not travel both  
And be one traveler, long I stood


anice
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   Posted 8/12/2009 9:01 PM (GMT -7)   
Dani, I am sorry all this is happening to you. You know we all love you here. And you have our unending and constant support now and always. You vent on girl. We'll listen and we'll care.

I am glad you are sharing this with us. You are always so upbeat and positive and funny. You are such a big part of this forum. I have never met anyone like you before. Dani, you have the most incredible sense of humor of anyone I've ever known. It is a gift. I know when I am down,sad,upset,having a bad day,end of my rope times, and I read one of your posts, it always makes me smile. I know others here feel the same. You are a precious gift to all of us on the forum. And you are such a beautiful woman. You hold your head up. And each day one foot in front of the other. You are going to make it!!!

And vanity is just vanity. I want you to go to the girls school and you hold your head up high. I know it is easier said than done. But this is only temporary. You will have a beautiful smile soon. It really doesn't matter what people think. I learned that a long time ago. They don't matter. You are better than that. This wasn't your fault. And you are getting it "fixed". My husbands teeth are horrible, well worse than horrible. And we have dental insurance. But we don't have the money needed to get his fixed. I know it bothers him. But I love him. And I don't really even "see" it anymore. One day we will get his fixed, whenever we have the money to do so. So see, I do understand where you are coming from with this. I really do. You hang in there, Dani. You are such an inspiration to all of us here.
Anice

Pete trips again!
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   Posted 8/12/2009 9:56 PM (GMT -7)   
Well said Anice! You and Dani are both Angels sent here to our little family of GOOD PEOPLE! You are the karma I so often talk about coming to the good folks (all of us w/ CP!) who deserve something good to happen! You two, Skeye, PA, Chutzie, Me, Susie, Chart, Laurie, Scarred, Patti, Tina, Frances, Sandi, Splash, Merry, Harra, Skrape, Rhonda, FJ, WB and so many others that I'm forgetting>(sorry, my mind has turned to poop!!)are a blessing to me and the rest. My wife sometimes watches me writing on the comp. and asks, what are you doing? I reply "writing to my friends who need me" When I started writing here in the CP forum I was living alone and and working super long hours for a monster, so miserable and lonely! You folks helped me keep my sanity back then and I can never repay y'all for that!
Dani, so sorry for kidnapping your page! I just love all Y'all so much and I may sound corny and cheezy but I don't care! The newbee's know there is something special about this place and stick around but it's not untill they grow w/ us for a while and see all the caring, concideration, compassion and respect that we have for each other do they realize how lucky we are to have this place and our family that has grown together. I truly wish that someday, somehow we could all meet eachother. Could you imagine all the love? I'll bet it would do us all more good than any meds or procedures! A GIANT HWCP group hug!!! Yea, now we're talikn and I've talked too much so I'll give it a break now.
Dani, you are such a special person, hang tough. A year from now you'll be telling someone about what this ordeal was like and when they see your beutiful smiling face, they will never believe you!
Big Hugz from your Big Bro!
Pete
PS> I'm still buying a lotery ticket every week and when all that karma cash comes rolling in, it's gonna be time for one hell of a party and you all will be there, no exceptions!!!


56 years old, Surgury, Radical Prostatectomy 8/20/03, PSA 6.6, Gleason 3 + 3 = 6, Adenocarcinoma extent (moderate) Stage & Margin:T2NOMX, No Metastases, Organ Confined, bone scan: Neg. 3 1/2 years of depression after surgery prior to Hypogonadizm DX, Testosterone Theropy> new 2/6/09> 400mg injections once a month. 56 and so glad to still be here to see my two sons grow up to be fine young men. They are both serving in the US Navy, Joseph is on the aircraft carrier USS John Stennis back in Bremerton, Wa. after 8 mo. deployment! and Pete Jr. is on The Asault Ship USS Bataan "The Jaws of the Fleet" somewhere in the Persian Gulf w/ 2,000 Marines aboard. I am one very proud (what they call me)> Big Pops! 

Post Edited (Pete trips again!) : 8/13/2009 6:42:37 AM (GMT-6)


infinite
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   Posted 8/12/2009 10:19 PM (GMT -7)   
Hey Dani... You are still a beautiful woman and dont ever forget it. I know and understand full well what you are going through emotionally, regardless of the symptoms. I am so sorry I didnt get out here to see and reply to your post sooner. I can tell you needed as many replies and friends support as possible.

It would be nice if there was a magic wand we could wave around to make all our friends here feel better right now. You are such a bright light on this board, bringing a lot of cheer and a positive attitude whenever it is needed... i just wish I knew the words to help you feel better and get through this rough spot. I just need to win the Powerball...then I can help everyone get to their appointments and not worry about the bill :)

Take care of yourself, and I really, really hopethat when the sun rises tomorrow, your day is as bright as it!

N8

PAlady
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   Posted 8/12/2009 11:51 PM (GMT -7)   
Dani,
Oh, I just wish I could give you a hug, and lend you a shoulder to cry on. And I sure do understand the money end. I'm scared what may be in my future because I don't have thousands of dollars to put into my mouth, but I'm at the age when it's somewhat expected. I'm so sorry you have had to go through this twice in your life! The dentist's should be giving you some freebe by now - you know, like when you buy enough of something and your card gets punched full and you get your meal or your coffee or whatever, free!

Pete - I have to say your words about our family brought tears to my eyes!!!!

((((((((((((Dani)))))))))))))

PaLady

Gretchen1
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   Posted 8/13/2009 7:14 AM (GMT -7)   
Dani,
 
My heart just breaks for you.  You are so sweet and have welcomed me so whole heartedly.  You are such a wonderful member here.  You reflect such love for everyone and are so quick to include newbies like myself.  I wish there was something I could do for you.  Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.  You are truly beautiful inside and out.  Please know that anyone that gets to know you must surely feel the same way!  You are such an inspiration to me.  I am so blessed to know you.  Hang in there dear sweet girl.
Gretchen  ~  diagnosed with MS July 2006
 
I have no lesions on my soul and so I will live with no limits.


Mrs. Dani
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   Posted 8/13/2009 10:28 AM (GMT -7)   
 
 
     Thank you all so much for your wonderful encouragment! My heart is smiling :-)   I came online last night, very late. gosh, just so terribly sad. I think it was after 2am. I cried and cried. I dont want to know what kind of a world this would be without you guys. Its feels like I finally found home, wanting to hugg your family so much!!!  *warmest huggs*
 
     I will try very hard to stand tall. I am embarrased, but your are all right. Theres nothing I can do about any of this, except stand tall. And gosh darnit if everything is going to be out of my control, I can atleast control that aspect. I will try my hardest!
 
     I wish I didnt wake up and feel like I need to go to bed. This just rediclous. Ive got so much to do!  Maybe my body doesnt know what a bed is for  smhair   By the time I am done taking medication and rubbing gel everywhere, chewing on orijel sticks and purring to Mr.T, it is already snack time.  I know, I have a whole lot more pain to come. Just wish I could start the next phase of this fight already. Would help too, if I had a name for my foe. A diagnosis. Maybe ill just give my illness my own name. Bone Stealer.  or.. Bone Theif. 
 
      I have to get going.  I think maybe I need to cut out all the stuff that isnt "needed". I hate being lazy! But at this point I think I need to prioritize my needs better. I am only on my feet for about, well no a little more thna, an hour. Closer to hour and half. Before my body burns and jerks and sticks. Wont do me any good to run myself into the ground  confused   besides, I think it is adding to the feeling of being "overwhelmed". Also, think im gonna just hunker down and put chair in each room. Will make sure I can sit when needed. I will make it a point to do the little thing I do have control over. Try very hard not to cry about the things that I cant do.
 
     I am so glad I met all of you. This is so scary, and every time I feel frighten like im about tto run away. There you are. All of you. Reminding me I can do this. It will all be okay. Thank you all so much!
*huggs*
dani
    
 
    
    
 
    
TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood,  
And sorry I could not travel both  
And be one traveler, long I stood


fatherjohn
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   Posted 8/13/2009 10:22 PM (GMT -7)   
Dani, sorry to hear all that is going on but you have a great attitude and that will help you win in the end. As I have been away fro awhile, I saw your thread and the first thing I thought of was we all have periods where we match one of the seven dwarfs. We had something going on here one time about the dwarfs and even made up a few of our own.  Which one are you today? I saw grumpy and sleepy. i hope you are also squeezy with the little ones. Have a better day tomorrow.

golitho
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   Posted 8/13/2009 11:31 PM (GMT -7)   
Well said FJ! Sorry I've been missing this for a few days, one of those extremily busy weeks where I feel like I've been chasing my tail!!! Dani, I really hope you're feeling a little less tired and your poor old back has stopped stinging. Is your mouth feeling better now? No wonder your body is exhausted, it sounds as if you need those magic friends to appear and carry your load for you for a few recovery days. You know the ones we can conjure up using our magic wands, they're good to clean the bottom of the fridge and remake your bed. Hope your hanging in there,Dani, best wishes, golitho

Mrs. Dani
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   Posted 8/13/2009 11:45 PM (GMT -7)   
 
 
   Dear Father John,
 
     I am glad you stopped by *hugg* I have wonder how you have been. I know you had ALOT going on in your life all at once. I hope you are doing okay. Were you ever able to get the funding for the school? Gosh, I sure hope so.
  
     I guess I am grumpy. I feel grumpy inside. I hate feeling grumpy. It no good. Certianly doesnt help things any. mad <~~Not too attractive on me   shakehead  
 
    A door to door sales men came to my door and said,"I'm doing a questionaire on the water quality in your area..Have you noticed a bad taste or smell?"
 
     I just said "Thank you for your time, have a pleasant day." and shut the door. I didnt let him say a single thing and you could tell he was sweating and tired. I should have been more considerate. Ugh  Somewhat polite. Instead of obviously agitated and quick to dismiss him.  smhair  
 
     Would serve me right!! If he ended up a police man pulling me over for something silly  rolleyes
 
    *huggs*
       dani


TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood,  
And sorry I could not travel both  
And be one traveler, long I stood


Blessedx8
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   Posted 8/13/2009 11:49 PM (GMT -7)   
Dani,

I'm sorry that I haven't posted before now.... I've been reading and thinking of you - please know that. I, too, wish that I could give you a big hug!! I hope my post finds your back feeling at least a little bit better....and maybe your mouth, too. I'm sure you ARE exhausted.

Dani - in every post that I've read of yours - you have such a great attitude, a wonderful sense of humor; you are so kind, compassionate and caring. I really admire you for going through all that you are right now. I just know you will get through all of this....

I wish I could answer the "why's" of all of this... I really do. But please know that you have many, many people here that love you and are here to listen and support you.

Tina
Pain Issues: Neck/back pain; migraines; carpal tunnel syndrome; widespread joint/muscle pain, nerve pain in hands, arms, feet; I also have POTS/dysautonomia; CFS/Fibromyalgia; Severe Hypertension; Hypothyroidism; Addison's Disease; Central Sleep Apnea; etc etc

Meds: MS Contin (480mg daily); MSIR (15mg/6x day); Soma (3x day); Atenolol; Midodrine; Phenergan; Effexor and on the list goes...

Future Plans: Intrathecal Pain Pump; already completed trial; awaiting my decision for implantation


Mrs. Dani
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   Posted 8/15/2009 9:03 AM (GMT -7)   
 
    Ugh! Is it next week yett? Holy cow.
 
*huggs*
   dani
TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood,  
And sorry I could not travel both  
And be one traveler, long I stood


Piercings
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   Posted 8/16/2009 1:32 AM (GMT -7)   
Unfortunately it's not next week yet, but I wanted to stop by again in this thread to tell you to keep your head up even if you're not doing big smiles.

If nothing else you can always play the mysterious smirking woman. Think of yourself as the modern Mona Lisa. You can always do the aloof appearance where you fail to really register any expression on your face. When I was running around with no teeth, I tried it. It really seems to un-nerve people when your face doesn't respond to them. I was trying it since I was uncomfortable with my face, I figured it would be a good distraction to experiment with people and their reactions.

Big smile or quiet smirk, you're still a beautiful person and you also have the gift of humor. I know that a lot of times I make jokes when I'm really stressed out cause it keeps me from crying; but I had to learn to listen to my own jokes so that I could laugh at them and distance myself from the pain/discomfort. Realize that you have that same gift and let yourself be amused with things.

Wishing you "rapid time passing" till you're at the day you desire...
Lacey

Mrs. Dani
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   Posted 8/16/2009 8:23 AM (GMT -7)   
 
 
Dear Lacy,
 
     Good morning *huggs* How are you doing today? Im procrastinating on my chores.... :-)   I am trying hard to not think about all.. well, everything. I meet the teachers and other moms tomorrow. I am going to try my very very hardest to not feel selfconscious aout my smile. I know one of the teachers I have to meet doesnt like me atall. Shes one kept say (for 1st year I began getting sick) "You couldnt possibly have scoliosis. *I* have scoliosis." When I had tried to explain my bones were degenerating she just cut me off and kept saying loud and aggresive "Yea yea, me too. And I am just fine. Theres nothing wrong with you to cause pain". Just really gross , passive aggresive behaviour. After her long dissertation it is obvious she is a Idiopathic scoliosis child without adult progression. All I saw was that she must have had a HUGE support system in her family. And all she wanted me to see was her very apparent anger.  *shiver* Lesson #2,002 No unbridled anger confused
 
     Of course as the year wore on.. and I kept progressing, fortunatly (thou I tried very hard to hide my "sick" at first) she decided to start talking to me as though I were a human being again.  I am very apprehensive about my youngest daughter going into her class. SO! I will have to asses her ability to interact with the others. I wish I didnt have to. But she is so openly aggresive, that there is no way I want anyone (certianly NOT my children) to see or bear withness to her wholly inapproiate behaviour. If my children  talked to me in the manner in which she spoke to me I would put them in time out without a moments hesitation. I really hope that she has made some positive steps towards a healthier life. If she has not.... I will have to speak with the principal about transition into a new class. I really really need to stop letting people place unneeded and un warranted burdons on my shoulders. Ive got some really positive life goals for the rest of this year, and either folks are on board.....  Or. Well, im sorry but I will never feel as good as I do today, tomorrow. Nor will I ever feel as good as I do tomorrow, next year. I just plain don't have time to waste.  smhair   Gosh, I really wish that things wernt so... diffacult right now confused  
 
     HAHAHAHA! I am gonna have to try out differant facial expressions! Why not? If I am going to be stuck like this I might as well laff about it  smilewinkgrin   and have a little fun smilewinkgrin
 
   I hope you have a good day today. Better low pain day!
 
*huggs*
   dani 
 
 
TWO roads diverged in a yellow wood,  
And sorry I could not travel both  
And be one traveler, long I stood


Chartreux
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   Posted 8/16/2009 8:44 AM (GMT -7)   
Dani,
Wow, you've been through so much and now to have to come face to face with such a mean teacher..
In my eye's your the most wonderful caring person here and if I could face down this teacher for you i would
If that had been me, I would've walked away slowly, turned around and said "Since when did you go to medical school?"
in a loud voice, but that is at least over and done for now...If I knew I had to face her, it would be hard
and I'm sorry you've got to meet this very very rude person..

I'll be hopeing your getting some low pain days soon...
lots and lots of soft hugz..
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Dani)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Keep us posted
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PAlady
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   Posted 8/16/2009 11:58 AM (GMT -7)   
Dani,
Do you want the vampire army to come with you tomorrow? We can all stand behind you and show our fangs and scare the beetlejuice out of this teacher. If you don't open your mouth much, she'll really wonder what could come next for her! I am planning to take the vamp. army to my future dentists appointments when needed! LOL At least, in spirit form!!! So think of us standing behind you, drueling and waiting for a bite of her neck and you are in charge of us and if/when we start "feeding"!!! Hope this wasn't too gross, but wanted to give you a little boost of confidence in a weird sort of way!

And also, a hug!

((((((((((((Dani))))))))))))

PaLady

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   Posted 8/16/2009 6:52 PM (GMT -7)   
Teachers are suppose to be the most compassionate, loving, warm, supportive and NON-judgemental people there are!  What other type of person could we possibly trust our most beloved little souls to.  Please don't hesitate to transfer your precious daughter out of her class.  Express just that to the principal.  Tell the prinicipal that you are not judging her ability to teach but you are looking to protect your child from a person you have seen act inappropriately and immaturely towards other people.  Teachers should be like doctors; they should first do no harm. 
 
Better to get the teacher that teaches less and loves more!  I wish you the very best of luck with this situation.  There is nothing more painful and worrysome than a problem with a child, no matter what that child's age.
Gretchen  ~  diagnosed with MS July 2006
 
I have no lesions on my soul and so I will live with no limits.

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